Once you’ve found a good man, it’s important to know how to melt his heart and make your man – whether he’s your boyfriend or your husband – appreciate you, love you, desire you, become “addicted” to you, and adore only you.
Being in love and having great chemistry and sizzling, hot sex aren’t the only ingredients that keep a relationship together and enduring.
There are other things that round out a relationship to create a unique bond and keep it strong year after year.
If you can master the following techniques – as well as other techniques I reveal in How To Inspire Your Man To Love, Cherish, Appreciate and Adore You – you have a much better chance of keeping your man happy, satisfied, and in love with you.
Your man wants someone who “gets” him – someone who knows him like no other person does.
If you “get” him and he knows it and feels it to his very core, you will form a close,unbreakable bond with him.
When your man adores you, he will feel closer to you and he will try to do things that make you happy.
Because ultimately, a man wants to make his wife or girlfriend happy. Men are “wired” that way. And he’ll go to great lengths to make a woman happy if he feels appreciated, respected, admired, and loved.
If you don’t believe me, think about what a man says when he gets involved with another woman. He says, “My wife (or girlfriend) doesn’t understand me.” And the “other woman” does. She does the things your man seeks from his relationship – the things that, if you can give them to him, will keep him happy and faithful to you.
1. Keep The Attraction Alive By Being Feminine
He was originally attracted to you because of your femininity…and probably your sexiness. After all, attraction is what makes him interested in you in the first place. Attraction is the reason he wants to get to know you better.
Even if you know how to drive a big rig or fix a car engine or swing a hammer on a construction site, he still looks for and desires your feminine and sexy side.
Show him your feminine side – whether it’s by wearing a sexy little black cocktail dress and high heels, or leather pants and high boots, or sexy lingerie.
Flirt with him. Be playful. Be sexy.
Keep the attraction alive by taking care of yourself, making sure you look attractive and smell wonderful, and wearing clothing and lingerie that accent your best features.
Maintain your grooming to a high standard. Looking comfy is one thing, looking frumpy is another thing entirely.
Eat healthy foods. Exercise. Watch your weight. Glow. Smile. Laugh. Be positive. Be affectionate.
Make him proud to have you on his arm.
Attraction isn’t all about sex and chemistry. Nor is it all about physical attraction.
There are many more elements that go into being attractive to a man and inspiring him to appreciate you and be the only woman he wants in his life.
Here are some more suggestions on what makes a man adore a woman…
2. Make Suggestions Sparingly
From time to time your man might ask you for your suggestions.
This is where you have to tread very carefully and lightly.
Because while he might want – and need – your suggestions, he might also resent or take offense when you give him suggestions (even when he has asked for your help!)
It makes no sense really, until you realize that most guys like to think they have all the answers and they know everything.
So when they ask someone for help it makes them feel inferior and feel like a failure.
For example, if your man has built his business from the ground up and he asks for your help he might feel that he has let you down and that your suggestions are a way of criticizing him.
When he asks for suggestions, tread softly. Don’t overdo it, even though you mean well. And even if he insists he wants or values your suggestions.
Above all else, don’t get caught up in the notion that you’re giving “constructive criticism.”
Criticism in any form is destructive. It can be hurtful. It can be demoralizing. It can break someone’s spirit and enthusiasm.
Instead of saying, “You’ve been doing that wrong. Do it this way” try something like…“Have you considered trying it this way to see if that gives you better results?” or “If it were me, I’d try this way.”
Of course, in any relationship or marriage it doesn’t have to be something you do or don’t do. Instead, there can be something missing.
It might be the romance. It might be the passion. It might be the lust. Or it might be something else.
Whatever it is, sometimes you just need a little guidance and new ideas to put the sizzle back and heighten the romance and passion and excitement.
After all, you came here looking for answers because there’s something that’s not right in your relationship.
If…
> You’re wondering if your man still loves you or even cares about you
> You’re feeling alone in your relationship
> You feel you’re the only one who does anything in the relationship and he’s not pulling his weight
> The romance and passion have disappeared from your relationship
> You love your man but he’s clueless about you and your wants, needs, and desires
and you want him to love you again or show more love towards you…
…then click the following link for How To Inspire Your Man To Love, Cherish, Appreciate and Adore You and discover how to capture and recapture your man’s heart!
After all, wouldn’t it be wonderful if there were more romance and passion, more love and caring, more touching and affection, more harmony and peace in your relationship so you feel loved and special all over again, just like it was when you and your man first met and started dating?
3. Understand His Needs
If you haven’t guessed it by now, your man has needs.
Some of those needs will be different from those you have.
Others will be the same.
Many of those needs will come as no surprise to you.
He needs sex and intimacy.
He needs to be loved, appreciated, and adored by you.
He needs your respect.
He needs your support so that he knows you have his back.
He needs someone who understands him.
He needs time alone in his Man Den.
He needs time to do his own thing – whether they’re hobbies or sports.
He needs time to hang out with his buddies.
His needs are very important to him.
If his needs are fulfilled he will feel satisfied and not seek them elsewhere.
4. Treat Him Right
Treat him as though he is the most intelligent, loving, funny, loyal, and attractive man in the world.
After all, there are things about him that you admire, respect, and like about him, otherwise you would never have fallen in love with him in the first place.
Make him feel desired and wanted…the way you would want to be treated.
5. Don’t Judge Him, Stand By Him
Avoid being like a critical parent.
He doesn’t want someone to tell him when he’s done something wrong – that just makes him feel like a little boy who’s been naughty or bad.
He’s looking for a partner, someone who is by his side and who supports him.
Sometimes that can be difficult – especially if he makes silly (or even stupid) decisions.
Ultimately, though, a man wants his girlfriend or wife to be his biggest fan. He wants someone who can cheer him on and who will stick by him through thick and thin.
6. Don’t Disrespect Him
A man doesn’t want to feel disrespected.
In fact, being respected by the woman he loves is very important to him.
Respect his right to have beliefs and values that are different from yours rather than ridiculing them or scoffing at them.
Avoid looking for ways to capitalize on opportunities to belittle or humiliate or embarrass him and that make him feel small and unappreciated.
7. Make Him Feel Loved, Valued, And Appreciated
When he’s least expecting it*, go up to him or go up behind him, wrap your arms around him, give him a big hug, kiss him and tell him how much you love him and value him and appreciate him in your life.
He’ll be thrilled to hear your words of love!
(*A word of caution: This technique can be very distracting. Don’t do this when he’s concentrating on something like a computer program or game or working intently on something like a project or using power tools or fixing the car.)
There are many more techniques you can use to make your man adore you.
Keep in mind, though, that these tips are just the beginning.
By using these – and many more – techniques you’ll go a long way in keeping your man happy and true to you.
A savvy woman knows how to treat her man so he has eyes only for her.
She knows the secrets that make her man happy that she’s in his life.
She doesn’t have just one or two secrets, though.
She knows dozens and dozens of ways to love, appreciate, and excite her man and make him feel like he’s the luckiest guy in the world.
Best of all, she uses these secrets all the time in subtle ways that work like magic on her man.
If your boyfriend or husband is…
> cold
> distant
> unloving
> or has shut down and created an emotional wall
and you want him to love you again or you want him to be more loving…
…then click the following link for How To Inspire Your Man To Love, Cherish, Appreciate and Adore You and discover how to capture and recapture your man’s heart!
You’ll find 101 ways – the secrets savvy women know – to add more love, respect, passion, and excitement to your relationship. Plus, you’ll find ways to ignite the passion in your relationship so he desires you, wants you, and can’t live without you. (Who doesn’t want that in their relationship?)
GirlGetsGreatGuy.com – the site that gives relationship and dating advice to women and helps them find their Mr. Right – wishes to thank Andrew C. for the beautiful roses photo in this article. Image credit: Roses (c) Andreyutzu #936341 freeimages.com
